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I was saddened by Sly's passing, and now this. :(
Around 20 years ago my brother and I saw the Beach Boys in concert. Very boring. We walked out. Brian wasn't there, by the way.
A couple of years later I got the honor and privilege of going to a Brian Wilson Band concert. As a listening experience, probably the finest concert I have ever heard. Brian mentioned that Melinda liked a song they sang backstage, and while it was not part of the setlist, they were going to do it for her. The band proceeded to sing the song, all a capella.
My reaction was, "this is what heaven must sound like."
Don't know the name of the song. The whole concert was superb.
RIP Brian. Thank you!
Yeah, sigh, it's been a real rough few weeks of attrition on all of this... Sly, Brian Wilson, and than hearing this morning about Douglas McCarthy of Nitzer Ebb, and that hits close to home for me as well..... sigh...
I know it's the course of life, and getting older myself... often times I don't want to pick up the phone or look at texts to find out certain things if you know what I mean...
(as I'm dumb enough to think/rationalize/fool myself that if I didn't hear about it, it didn't happen... (the Locke vs Berkeley epistemological philosophical argument)... )
I'm burying one of my best friends on Saturday and have to do the eulogy after doing the obit and whatnot, and while that can be exhausting mentally to some degree, it's been easier for me to put my concerns on being there, or solving problems for his kids (as he was a single dad), but I'm not lying to myself in recognizing those efforts absolutely are being used to somewhat push back my own processing of it... and I know I'm just kinda ducking my own feelings on that...
(and why I haven't been so active here as in middle moved continents again and dealing with those details etc and just the mood that settles over that sort of thing....)
Regardless, without trying to come off as pedantic, I hope the people here, and those I talk to, banter, debate, discuss and learn from, in all respect and appreciation are both taking care of themselves and also making sure details of their lives are addressed as should (especially with kids), as hell.... we just don't know do we?
So I'm putting bubblewrap on some people lol, and as I was someone who used to play in heavy traffic as an idiot... I recognize not even Michael Jordan couldn't beat Father Time, and s happens, and stuff catches up ..
So not as worried about discussions like the aliasing on SoundToys Decapitator kinda thing this week you know?
But hey, I always love the distraction, the knowledge gained, the stories, and experiences of others here in all due respect.